A Wife

Fear now and learn to have courage...

I've been a husband for 20 years and finally my two daughters asked me this question: Who is a wife?

A wife gives birth. She takes care of the children. She makes sure the kids eat properly and are kept clean. She washes the children's clothes and keeps them mended. She arranges for their schooling, makes sure they have their adequate social life with their peers, takes them to the park, etc. She takes care of the children when they are sick. She is always around when the children need special care. On top of that, a wife teaches the children about values of what is right and what is wrong.

Probably a wife goes to work too and yet have to take care of the husband's physical needs. She keeps the house clean. She keeps the husband's clothes clean, iron, mended, replaced when need to be, and sees to it that the husband's personal things are kept in their proper place so that he can find what he needs the minute he needs it. She cooks the meal. She plans the menus. She does grocery shopping, prepares the meals, serves them pleasantly and then do the cleaning up. She takes care of the husband's when he is sick and sympathize his pain. In fact, she looses her own sleep just to make sure he sleeps soundly when he is sick. She goes along when the family take the family vacation so that someone will continue to care the husband and the children especially when he needs a rest and changes of scene.

When her husband goes to work, a wife prays for his safety. She prays for his good fortune be it from the sky, the sea, the ground or even from inner earth. Yet she seeks his forgiveness.

A working wife is rather more difficult as she never bother the husband with rambling complaints. She worries about being late from work. She listens to him when he feels the need to explain something difficult. A more intelligent wife (like their mother ... hehehehe) have to lower down her level of intelligence so that the husband's ego won't get hurt (errr .........). She asks permission nearly about everything. On top of that, a wife always know the time he needs to be left alone.

A wife defends her husband with her own life especially against her nasty relatives. She is not only obedient to her husband but also to her in-laws and her husband's relatives. She learns quickly everything about her husband's side - faith, principles, custom, language, their likes, their dislikes, their businesses, their problems etc.

A wife takes care the details of the husband's social life. When his friends come over, she keeps the house clean and tidy beforehand. She prepares special meal, serves it to him and his friends and never interrupt when he talks about things that interest him and his friends. She makes sure the children never bother him and his friends so that the guests feel comfortable. She makes sure they have their ashtrays. She serves them coffee at time they prefer it. On top of that, a wife knows that he needs a night out by himself.

A wife always smile. She is romantic. She prepares herself well in bed. She is sensitive to his sexual needs. She makes love passionately and eagerly when he feels like it. She never demand sexual attention when he is not in a mood for it. She remains sexually faithful to him so he doesn't have to live his life with jealousies. In fact, what worries a wife most as a wife is the possibility of not satisfying him in bed.
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Later I heard them say ... Oh my God!
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A good comment by nour:

A wife would be "someone who is not perfect makes flaws once in a while and will do anything for her family, massive strength behind all those softness and patience". :)

New Song Posted: Suatu Hari Nanti

Absolutism In Individualism

Reality does exist and is absolute providing man dictates between true and false with rationality. Surviving the reality, man must think and act on his thinking. The thoughts then determine the character, values, emotions, and actions. Act upon the choices made, man proposes his own destiny (though God may dispose).

A human society provides values namely knowledge and trade. The values provide choices. Choices demand absolutism in man as every man is an end in himself. Other men are not his nor he is theirs. Individualism then is not opposed to man living in society. Individualism is opposed to man living in society as a slave.

Rationality requires freedom of action. Freedom of actions are the rights. The rights support life. Life provides plenty - Liberty, Property, Happiness etc. The right to live then is an absolutism in individualism. As individualism is part of a social context, rights then are moral principles. Rights are not infringed upon. A man is in his right should he is robbed and the robber is morally wrong.

A man's right can be violated at the highest degree via political order. Politics can initiate force onto men. A man's right is violated at the highest degree once his mind is stopped from thinking. Once a man is forced from thinking, he himself is useless for his means to survive is taken.

A man is in his right should he be forced from thinking and the force initiated to violate his right is morally wrong. A force initiated onto men creates another right - the right to self-defense. To use force in retaliation in self-defense against those who initiate it is not a moral option, but a moral requirement. Thus the moral principle of self-defense is never be used to initiate force but only for retaliation of self-defense. The rights of men then have the right to be protected.

In order to protect rights, a government requires three things: An army -- to protect against foreign invaders, A police force -- to protect against domestic criminals, and A court system -- to settle honest disputes that arise, enforce contracts, and to punish criminals, according to objectively predefined laws.

To ensure that no despot whether that despot be a single dictator, a political pressure-group, or a befuddled "democratic" majority of the moment may usurp the powers of government, and turn its machinery upon any of its citizens, each and every aspect of government action is codified, and carried out, according to objectively defined laws. The rule of law has only one proper purpose: To protect the rights of the smallest minority that has ever existed: The Individual.

Through the protection on the smallest minority, the individual, a society may flourish.

A society may flourish where individuals are moralists and being important: A producer, An inventor, A thinker etc even A farmer as long as individuals do contribute and give values - Knowledge and Trades. A society may flourish where the evil is not rewarded, but punished, and the good is admired, and praised. A society where virtue is not a weakness, but a strength. A society may flourish where a life of imaginable riches and wealth, is a possibility -- for everyone who is willing to think. A society may flourish where education is not a state-induced brainwashing, but truly becomes a "mind-expanding" experience. A society may flourish where the cost of living decreases, as incomes continually rise.

Reality does exist and is absolute providing man dictates between true and false with rationality.

New Song Posted: Layan Kepala

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YOU HAVE REACHED

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OF THE INTERNET

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THIS IS ANFIELD :-)

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New Song Posted: Taman Lingkaran